tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984234907320732775.post8051098556438517302..comments2023-09-28T19:40:36.924+10:00Comments on Finding Balance: 11 weeks out and Moving on!Stephanie Davishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09822563169866612283noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984234907320732775.post-3515381823332919782009-07-26T10:03:14.191+10:002009-07-26T10:03:14.191+10:00i can completely relate to you about your feelings...i can completely relate to you about your feelings towards your mother. I still talk to my mom, but she has been an alcoholic for years. I have been without a true "mother" since the age of about 15. Her own issues with alcohol have changed her into a new person, and i find that when im with her, I end up mothering her. She just can't take care of herself and it is really sad. Sometimes I feel better when I go weeks without seeing her, but not having a mother is very hard for a girl. Everyone wants a mom. <br /><br />Back to comp stuff! Lol, are you training for bodybuilding or figure?Nerd Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06028282620116189957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984234907320732775.post-12187772015832556812009-07-13T12:18:20.848+10:002009-07-13T12:18:20.848+10:00You're looking GREAT, Steph. And lucky you, ha...You're looking GREAT, Steph. And lucky you, having Jo to coach you with your posing...<br /><br />Can't wait to see the final result, I'm sure you're going to be stunning on the day.Kekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02545413219256990483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984234907320732775.post-75705496789916885982009-07-12T08:50:25.223+10:002009-07-12T08:50:25.223+10:00Too bad about your mum issues....but you're st...Too bad about your mum issues....but you're strong enough to move through it.<br /><br />Saw some of your pics on facebook-coming along nicely....I'm sure with the support of your coach you will be able to triumph over those food issues. <br />Keep up the good work!Raechellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15065910010184139456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984234907320732775.post-71361935862127629502009-07-11T11:02:59.035+10:002009-07-11T11:02:59.035+10:00Hi babe,
I soooo get what it feels like with the ...Hi babe,<br /><br />I soooo get what it feels like with the situation with your mum. My mum well, she's hopeless. But if I can give you one word of advice.<br /><br />It will intensify that feeling of abandonment or whatever you are feeling when you have your own children, so be aware of this. Be prepared to get help with it if you need.... with my own two children the biggest thing that i had trouble with was, "what was is wrong with me?" I love my kids so much and I cant be away from them for long without missing them teriibly, so why did my own mother treat me like that??<br /><br />But I can say, you WILL get through it if everyday you remind yourself of all the wonderful things you do have and are. Not to mention all the things you are yet to experience.<br /><br />Its not easy, but that is just what life is about. You will find when and if you have kids that history WILL NOT repeat itself and you will be a better mum beacuse of this experience.<br /><br />wow... that was deap, hope your having a good weekend babe. Stay on the bright side :)TiarnaHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09510182595087307007noreply@blogger.com